Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Courage and disclosure

If somebody has a mental health issue or a learning/cognitive disability and they're open to discussing it, that's often seen as a lot more personal than talking about a physical health problem. Many will call it brave. I think this speaks to the fact that while both can be stigmatized, mental and cognitive issues tend to be more so. They're judged as conditions that reflect on your character, rather than a part of your genetic makeup. This is really unfortunate and demonstrates exactly why it's so important for the taboo to be broken. Not that anyone with any kind of disability or health issue, mental or otherwise, is obligated to discuss it. Privacy needs to be respected and curiosity-assuaging explanations are not owed. But if someone is willing to talk about their experiences with a mental health disorder or another cognitive condition, I think it's best not to say they're oversharing or to categorize it as more personal than other things. The reason why it's such sensitive information is because society made it that way. Hopefully we can someday reach a point where being vocal about it is broadly accepted, rather than brave.